--- title: Courage – the key to leading yourself with confidence description: Tools for Leading Ourselves -- In Life & In Our Career Workshop - Learn the many principles and tools to help us lead ourselves better. image: https://info.westorg.org/hubfs/image%20-%20woman.jpeg --- [![Home](https://info.westorg.org/hubfs/West%20August2017/Img/west%202016.jpg)](https://gwnew.memberclicks.net/home) # WEST Wisdom Blog ## Courage – the key to leading yourself with confidence Posted by [WEST Board Member](https://info.westorg.org/blog/author/west-board-member) on Jan 10, 2018 9:20:00 AM - [Tweet](https://twitter.com/share) Fear of failure and the unknown can sabotage your life’s journey and prevent you from reaching your full potential. Through heightened self awareness and knowledge of your strengths you can take the personal responsibility of owning your life and courageously step forward out of your comfort zone.   There are many principles and tools to help us lead ourselves better. Please join us for the upcoming WEST workshop on January 16 with Scott Stolze. Scott will cover 12 principles we can use to become better leaders of ourselves. Those principles involve learning, emotional intelligence, authenticity, not living up or down to others, persistence, thinking for yourself, choosing courage over confidence, life ‘systems’ over goals, being accountable, mental strength, gratitude over expectations, and living in a growth mindset vs. fixed mindset. The workshop will cover all of these topics and really dive into emotional intelligence and developing your skills in self awareness, self regulation, empathy, and social skills along with not living up, not living down, not comparing, not envy, and not put yourself down.   [![Click here to learn more about  the event and get registered ](https://no-cache.hubspot.com/cta/default/2412953/43c1adca-89e1-444d-95a4-924652026b10.png)](https://cta-redirect.hubspot.com/cta/redirect/2412953/43c1adca-89e1-444d-95a4-924652026b10)   [![Stay informed about upcoming WEST events  by signing up to receive our newsletters here ](https://no-cache.hubspot.com/cta/default/2412953/5834595c-6bb8-49cf-8e38-bc050b69e5e2.png)](https://cta-redirect.hubspot.com/cta/redirect/2412953/5834595c-6bb8-49cf-8e38-bc050b69e5e2)     ![WEST 2016.jpg](https://info.westorg.org/hs-fs/hubfs/WEST_Logo/WEST%202016.jpg?width=320&name=WEST%202016.jpg) Topics: [Events](https://info.westorg.org/blog/topic/events), [Leadership](https://info.westorg.org/blog/topic/leadership), [STEM](https://info.westorg.org/blog/topic/stem), [Women](https://info.westorg.org/blog/topic/women), [Career](https://info.westorg.org/blog/topic/career), [Community](https://info.westorg.org/blog/topic/community), [Life](https://info.westorg.org/blog/topic/life), [Resilience](https://info.westorg.org/blog/topic/resilience), [Cambridge](https://info.westorg.org/blog/topic/cambridge), [Women in STEM](https://info.westorg.org/blog/topic/women-in-stem), [Networking](https://info.westorg.org/blog/topic/networking), [Upcoming Events](https://info.westorg.org/blog/topic/upcoming-events), [Lead](https://info.westorg.org/blog/topic/lead), [Leading Ourselves](https://info.westorg.org/blog/topic/leading-ourselves), [Emotional Intelligence](https://info.westorg.org/blog/topic/emotional-intelligence), [Developing Your Skills](https://info.westorg.org/blog/topic/developing-your-skills), [Self-Awareness](https://info.westorg.org/blog/topic/self-awareness), [Empathy](https://info.westorg.org/blog/topic/empathy) ### Subscribe to Email Updates ### Recent Posts ### Posts by Topic - 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